Okay this is probably a stupid question, but as far as sex goes, I am worried about what the guy thinks. I met someone back in August of last year. It was obvious he noticed me and I noticed him, but I could not give him the time of day because I had recently broken up with my boyfriend. This guy was always in the back of my mind and then one night unexpectedly we ran into each other. This was 3 months later. We ended up sitting together and talking and before the night was over we ended up having sex. He called me 2 days later and we kept in touch. But since then he has had a job change and has moved several hours away. This guy is a close friend of my cousin who introduced us. His job is about 2 hours away from where my cousin lives and he told me the next time I go down there to let him know. We have had several opportunities to see each other and then when he says that he really wants to see me, for some reason he can't. He says to stay in touch and when one of us calls the other we may talk for an hour. I guess my question is, is it possible when you have sex that way and you keep in touch that there may be somethingthere and you can still have a relationship later. My cousin told me that he is a different kind of guy. He confuses me with the way he acts. I was told that he has been burned a few times and maybe afraid to get close. I have been very careful not to come across needy or desperate. Just being a friend. We agreed when he got his job lined out that we would hang out sometimes. We could always meet in the middle. About the time I give up on him he will call me or text me. I am confused about what he is thinking. Help
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Trina
Oklahoma