we are what we are what we are....

my advices is to open your heart and wish him well ...then let him go....

The trouble with life is that it isn't cozy enough. In the baby part of ourselves, which every one of us still has, we all need to be hugged and cuddled. . . . To be touched and held, to have our skin -- that miraculous fine thin silken wrapper of our being -- caressed, addressed, remembered, and cherished, is one of the greatest human requirements.
— Daphne Rose Kingma in 101 Ways to Have True Love in Your Life

To Practice This Thought: Cuddle up!



it's a natural need to be touched... and a great lose not too... great love without touch over years is not good for ones soul.... love him enough to take care of yourself, speak your needs ...don't lose your voice or your magic.

Smoking a lot of pot is linked with erectile dysfunction and a lack of interest in sex. If he wants to continue to use that much pot, then your sex life will suffer.

I agree, perhaps it is time to find someone who has an interest in sex!

It's maybe possible that he has high blood pressure or something else. You may want to get him into the doc just to be safe. If not, you may want to give him a talk to see how he feels about it.